Monday, January 31, 2005
Old crooners
Just been listening to some good old oldies... my ultimate favourite is Unchained Melodies! "ohhh mmmyyy loovveee... my darling... " Just love it, I get all goosebumpy. I could play that again and again and not get sick of it. Even asked my parents if they used to go to the old school dance halls. hehe how fun would that be?!
Funny that only the girls picked up on the "date" thing. As I mentioned I use that term very very loosely. (I was asked on a date and went along thinking it was just hanging with a mate, but apparently everyone else knew it was a date, date expect me, until way later! good laugh though) So I met this guy that I was referred to by a school friend and asked him all these questions about where he works (Accenture) and other stuff. Dating with a purpose haha he was nice enough to forward my cv to the HR and even pay for my coffee. Coincidently some of his friends were at starbucks too! haha I would have so done that too - get my friends to go along if I was meeting someone for the first time. I guess it is kinda weird. hehe he was really nice and encouraging, and saying that I should enjoy the time I have now, because I won't have much later. It's a truth I will probably only realise later.
Had two other meetings today. One with a recruitment agency which went quite well. She was positive and has a client in mind so hopefully will hear back soon! It sounds exciting, so will need to be praying about that one. And in the arvo met a lady at the football company. There's no jobs here at the mo. but one in Singapore... so I need to think/pray about that one too.
And talked to Jen, Brent & Lydia tonite which was really nice. Lyds was saying the same thing, that I should be using this time to prepare myself, spiritually for what's ahead. So true
The sucky thing of today was that I wore these heeled pointy shoes and now I have big fat blisters... boooo the price we pay aye
Funny that only the girls picked up on the "date" thing. As I mentioned I use that term very very loosely. (I was asked on a date and went along thinking it was just hanging with a mate, but apparently everyone else knew it was a date, date expect me, until way later! good laugh though) So I met this guy that I was referred to by a school friend and asked him all these questions about where he works (Accenture) and other stuff. Dating with a purpose haha he was nice enough to forward my cv to the HR and even pay for my coffee. Coincidently some of his friends were at starbucks too! haha I would have so done that too - get my friends to go along if I was meeting someone for the first time. I guess it is kinda weird. hehe he was really nice and encouraging, and saying that I should enjoy the time I have now, because I won't have much later. It's a truth I will probably only realise later.
Had two other meetings today. One with a recruitment agency which went quite well. She was positive and has a client in mind so hopefully will hear back soon! It sounds exciting, so will need to be praying about that one. And in the arvo met a lady at the football company. There's no jobs here at the mo. but one in Singapore... so I need to think/pray about that one too.
And talked to Jen, Brent & Lydia tonite which was really nice. Lyds was saying the same thing, that I should be using this time to prepare myself, spiritually for what's ahead. So true
The sucky thing of today was that I wore these heeled pointy shoes and now I have big fat blisters... boooo the price we pay aye
Saturday, January 29, 2005
My so-called social life
It's funny how weekends are a reminder of how social you are. Even having the option of doing something is an indicator.
Last nite went out for dinner with Herb & Mari at Dan Ryans. haha remembering the good old days in that place. Found out that there are a couple more people in town. So after dinner headed to Bahamas, yep that place is still there, and still looks the same (it's a bar everyone used to go to). It was crazy cuz Haresh, Aaron, Aj & Neej were there! People I haven't seen in ages... so it was good catching up. Everyone is pretty much the same, maybe a few extra pounds here and there hehe. They find my accent slightly amusing and it seems like I've picked up the southern R! I said burrgerr. I wasn't drinking, and being around people who were slightly drunk or wasted, smoking away was an environment I'm not unfamiliar with, yet have been quite removed from in the pass few years. The only thing I can't stand is coming home smelling like an ashtray!! Gross...
Tonite was another story. Went along to one_eighty, the 18-30s group at the church I went to last week. I was late and I partly blame Phil for that since he called. But I really should've known with the traffic on a sat nite, it would take me over an hour by bus! The guy that heads it up, Derek is a really good guy. He spoke about Jesus meeting the Samaritan woman and picked out 6 points... let's see if I can remember them (slightly paraphased)
1. Jesus cared for the uncared (samaritans = social outcasts)
2. There was no crowd/audience
3. Jesus was equal with her or placed himself lower
4. No miracles were performed
5. Wasn't ashamed of the truth
6. Took hold of the opportunity
And basically asked the question on what we were doing with our salvation. When was the last time you personally led someone to Christ? not just bringing them to church or to a christian group/meeting, but one-on-one, talking about the truth and inviting them to a life that God has for them. wooahhh... I don't think I could even say. It was challenging, definately worth thinking about and bringing before God!
(This morning I read this - "Your very lives are a letter that anyone can read by just looking at you. Christ himself wrote it - not with ink, but with God's living spirit; not chiseled into stone, but carved into human lives and we publish it" 2 cor 3:2-3 Msg. oh so true)
After some worship, there was food! Obviously, no church meeting is without something yummy to eat. They have the kewlest cafe as well! I really should have worn a sign saying my name, where I was from, what I was doing, what I studied and what sort of job I was looking for, cuz I had to repeat that several times! But it's all good, met lots of people. It's funny being in these shoes, cuz for so long I've been on the other side, talking to new people, not being the new person! And HK being HK, the small, connected place that it is - I met people who were in my school, had sisters in my year, knew people I played hockey with, and this guy asked if I was from Kent, in England! He managed to pick up my english accent, so it's still lurking around somewhere! that makes me happy. Funny thing is that he studied in Cambridge and Earl is there. So I asked him if he knew him and he actually did!! How crazy is that?!
The kewlest thing was when Derek asked how I was doing, ie. with the stress of being back in HK and finding a job and all that sort of stuff. He genuinally asked. He said that people in the church would pray with/for me, but there was no pressure to commit to this church, but they would love to be there to help out and maybe have some contacts. Nearly made me cry! mehhh... God's so good to bring people around me.
So the weekend so far has been a reminder of how God cares for me through his church and that while we're in the world, we are to care for others. And tomorrow I have a blind "date"... ok I use that term very loosely, but still I'm having coffee (at Starbucks) with a friend of a friend. hmm what should I wear?!?! haha should be interesting
Last nite went out for dinner with Herb & Mari at Dan Ryans. haha remembering the good old days in that place. Found out that there are a couple more people in town. So after dinner headed to Bahamas, yep that place is still there, and still looks the same (it's a bar everyone used to go to). It was crazy cuz Haresh, Aaron, Aj & Neej were there! People I haven't seen in ages... so it was good catching up. Everyone is pretty much the same, maybe a few extra pounds here and there hehe. They find my accent slightly amusing and it seems like I've picked up the southern R! I said burrgerr. I wasn't drinking, and being around people who were slightly drunk or wasted, smoking away was an environment I'm not unfamiliar with, yet have been quite removed from in the pass few years. The only thing I can't stand is coming home smelling like an ashtray!! Gross...
Tonite was another story. Went along to one_eighty, the 18-30s group at the church I went to last week. I was late and I partly blame Phil for that since he called. But I really should've known with the traffic on a sat nite, it would take me over an hour by bus! The guy that heads it up, Derek is a really good guy. He spoke about Jesus meeting the Samaritan woman and picked out 6 points... let's see if I can remember them (slightly paraphased)
1. Jesus cared for the uncared (samaritans = social outcasts)
2. There was no crowd/audience
3. Jesus was equal with her or placed himself lower
4. No miracles were performed
5. Wasn't ashamed of the truth
6. Took hold of the opportunity
And basically asked the question on what we were doing with our salvation. When was the last time you personally led someone to Christ? not just bringing them to church or to a christian group/meeting, but one-on-one, talking about the truth and inviting them to a life that God has for them. wooahhh... I don't think I could even say. It was challenging, definately worth thinking about and bringing before God!
(This morning I read this - "Your very lives are a letter that anyone can read by just looking at you. Christ himself wrote it - not with ink, but with God's living spirit; not chiseled into stone, but carved into human lives and we publish it" 2 cor 3:2-3 Msg. oh so true)
After some worship, there was food! Obviously, no church meeting is without something yummy to eat. They have the kewlest cafe as well! I really should have worn a sign saying my name, where I was from, what I was doing, what I studied and what sort of job I was looking for, cuz I had to repeat that several times! But it's all good, met lots of people. It's funny being in these shoes, cuz for so long I've been on the other side, talking to new people, not being the new person! And HK being HK, the small, connected place that it is - I met people who were in my school, had sisters in my year, knew people I played hockey with, and this guy asked if I was from Kent, in England! He managed to pick up my english accent, so it's still lurking around somewhere! that makes me happy. Funny thing is that he studied in Cambridge and Earl is there. So I asked him if he knew him and he actually did!! How crazy is that?!
The kewlest thing was when Derek asked how I was doing, ie. with the stress of being back in HK and finding a job and all that sort of stuff. He genuinally asked. He said that people in the church would pray with/for me, but there was no pressure to commit to this church, but they would love to be there to help out and maybe have some contacts. Nearly made me cry! mehhh... God's so good to bring people around me.
So the weekend so far has been a reminder of how God cares for me through his church and that while we're in the world, we are to care for others. And tomorrow I have a blind "date"... ok I use that term very loosely, but still I'm having coffee (at Starbucks) with a friend of a friend. hmm what should I wear?!?! haha should be interesting
Thursday, January 27, 2005
I can't believe it's actually Thursday
mate, time goes by... I've already been here just over a week! And I'm really missing coffee and ice-cream... and yes of course everybody else
Job Hunting
It reminds me of how Pooh and Piglet go hunting for heffalumps. Their hunt always ends up going around in circles because they're following their own footprints. The best part is when they sit and have lunch cuz they're always hungry!! hah at this rate I really can't afford to keep eating, esp chocolate. I haven't even done any running since sept! crazy
Anyways... so what's the haps?
After rescheduling a few times, I have an interview with a recruitment agency on Monday 9:30am! Yes, it's that early, good thing I'm a morning person, otherwise that would suck. The kewl thing is the lady is from NZ too, so that's a nice wee connection. They were impressed with my cv so that's a good sign.
On Sunday, I'm meeting up with a friend of a friend who works at Accenture. My cv has been passed on the the HR and I'm just meeting with this guy to ask questions about the company, their culture, the industry and so on. So it'll be kewl, pretty informal. The worse thing though is that we're meeting in Starbucks! grr... I wonder if I could direct him towards Pacific Coffee? Anything but Starbucks! The funny thing is that he sounds just like Eric! So I had to try not to laugh when I talked to him on the phone... hehee
I'm slowly getting a life here... finally called up some friends that are working here so will catch up with them tomorrow. And a few others next week...
I've accepted the fact that I'm here and it's for awhile. No man is an island, so gotta get out there and make some friends.
Job Hunting
It reminds me of how Pooh and Piglet go hunting for heffalumps. Their hunt always ends up going around in circles because they're following their own footprints. The best part is when they sit and have lunch cuz they're always hungry!! hah at this rate I really can't afford to keep eating, esp chocolate. I haven't even done any running since sept! crazy
Anyways... so what's the haps?
After rescheduling a few times, I have an interview with a recruitment agency on Monday 9:30am! Yes, it's that early, good thing I'm a morning person, otherwise that would suck. The kewl thing is the lady is from NZ too, so that's a nice wee connection. They were impressed with my cv so that's a good sign.
On Sunday, I'm meeting up with a friend of a friend who works at Accenture. My cv has been passed on the the HR and I'm just meeting with this guy to ask questions about the company, their culture, the industry and so on. So it'll be kewl, pretty informal. The worse thing though is that we're meeting in Starbucks! grr... I wonder if I could direct him towards Pacific Coffee? Anything but Starbucks! The funny thing is that he sounds just like Eric! So I had to try not to laugh when I talked to him on the phone... hehee
I'm slowly getting a life here... finally called up some friends that are working here so will catch up with them tomorrow. And a few others next week...
I've accepted the fact that I'm here and it's for awhile. No man is an island, so gotta get out there and make some friends.
Tuesday, January 25, 2005
A Howie Day
Yep that was what it was... I finally got to listen to him after 2months being without. oh Howie Day, made me think of the days in Dunners... esp in Burns doing my assignments! haha thank God those days are over
This morning started off great as I got to speak to Abbey! Well at first I talked to her answering machine, and then I managed to get to her. Love that accent, I reckon it's getting worse - oops did I just say that? I mean, stronger and that's in a good way!
Then... went and had a facial. ahhh... it feels like millions of little hands all over your face. You have to struggle not to fall asleep - what a waste otherwise!
In the afternoon did some retail therapy with my mum. It seriously was really good... forgotten how much I love HK shopping and how cheap it is! We spent NZ$46 and I got a black top, white puffy jacket (always wanted one since I saw Kev's!) and it's reversible, a light blue jersey and a zip-up cardy. I love it!
This morning started off great as I got to speak to Abbey! Well at first I talked to her answering machine, and then I managed to get to her. Love that accent, I reckon it's getting worse - oops did I just say that? I mean, stronger and that's in a good way!
Then... went and had a facial. ahhh... it feels like millions of little hands all over your face. You have to struggle not to fall asleep - what a waste otherwise!
In the afternoon did some retail therapy with my mum. It seriously was really good... forgotten how much I love HK shopping and how cheap it is! We spent NZ$46 and I got a black top, white puffy jacket (always wanted one since I saw Kev's!) and it's reversible, a light blue jersey and a zip-up cardy. I love it!
Monday, January 24, 2005
HK life (so far)
Ok so I've been back a total of four days and I've already let the NZ-naivety get the better of me!
First day, I went out to get a new phonecard. My dad had told me which provider to go to, I forgot and ended up going with the first one I saw - HK$50 for 300mins, score! After signing up, I turned the corner to find another provider which had a much better deal HK$55.50 for 500mins. Feeling rather stink, I continued walking and saw yet another one with an even better deal!! gutted... so for the whole day I'm feeling rather ripped off, and knowing that it was my own fault made it worse.
It's funny how quickly you can get back into the way of life here - the fast paced, work oriented, materialistic view of life. I've found myself speeding down the road, overtaking every people I can, slipping through any gap possible, getting frustrated at "slow" people, trying to find the quickest way to get where I want to be with no distractions or interruptions. It reminds me of that advert with the kid saying that he types fast, reads fast, eats fast, blinks and sleeps fast! It feels like I'm living that already and it's only been four days!!
While doing the touristy stuff with Jared, I'm constantly thinking about what I need to be doing about finding a job, settling in a church, finding friends and so on. Already, I have found out that the guy I was suppose to have an interview with is no longer with that company and also I've had miscommunications with another recruiter. okokok I know I'm being rather dramatic - it's been four days and I have been followed up by another person in that company and I'll get in touch with the recruiter next week.
Another good thing is that I went along to this church I have been going to when I'm back for holidays. And in the lift I met some people I went to school with. I couldn't remember their names, but the pressure decreased when they couldn't remember mine either. In addition, the service was much like Dunedin Elim and the speaker was an Aussie from Hillsong, so that made it feel like home :) not the aussie, I mean the similar style of speaking!! SO that's good. God is faithful! I know I just need to keep trusting Him with everything, job, friends and all that stuff. He's sussed it out, so I really should stop worrying about it!!
And to top it off, Jared's leaving tomorrow which is an incredibily sad thing... so I'm definately going to need some extra TLC. I think I'll go for a facial and massage to help me de-stress. That and another box of chocolate hehe
First day, I went out to get a new phonecard. My dad had told me which provider to go to, I forgot and ended up going with the first one I saw - HK$50 for 300mins, score! After signing up, I turned the corner to find another provider which had a much better deal HK$55.50 for 500mins. Feeling rather stink, I continued walking and saw yet another one with an even better deal!! gutted... so for the whole day I'm feeling rather ripped off, and knowing that it was my own fault made it worse.
It's funny how quickly you can get back into the way of life here - the fast paced, work oriented, materialistic view of life. I've found myself speeding down the road, overtaking every people I can, slipping through any gap possible, getting frustrated at "slow" people, trying to find the quickest way to get where I want to be with no distractions or interruptions. It reminds me of that advert with the kid saying that he types fast, reads fast, eats fast, blinks and sleeps fast! It feels like I'm living that already and it's only been four days!!
While doing the touristy stuff with Jared, I'm constantly thinking about what I need to be doing about finding a job, settling in a church, finding friends and so on. Already, I have found out that the guy I was suppose to have an interview with is no longer with that company and also I've had miscommunications with another recruiter. okokok I know I'm being rather dramatic - it's been four days and I have been followed up by another person in that company and I'll get in touch with the recruiter next week.
Another good thing is that I went along to this church I have been going to when I'm back for holidays. And in the lift I met some people I went to school with. I couldn't remember their names, but the pressure decreased when they couldn't remember mine either. In addition, the service was much like Dunedin Elim and the speaker was an Aussie from Hillsong, so that made it feel like home :) not the aussie, I mean the similar style of speaking!! SO that's good. God is faithful! I know I just need to keep trusting Him with everything, job, friends and all that stuff. He's sussed it out, so I really should stop worrying about it!!
And to top it off, Jared's leaving tomorrow which is an incredibily sad thing... so I'm definately going to need some extra TLC. I think I'll go for a facial and massage to help me de-stress. That and another box of chocolate hehe
Friday, January 21, 2005
Wo zai Xiang Gang (I'm in Hong Kong)
...so I'm in Hong Kong now.
After arriving at the airport, thinking my flight was at 10:30am when it was actually 12pm, the plane was delayed for 1.30hrs... so my last few hours in NZ were spent in the Auckland Airport, sleeping, kinda shopping and taking deep breaths.
Watching NZ pass by through the tiny airplane window was incredibily hard. Unfortunately, I was in the aisle seat and the lady next to me pulled the blinds down so she could sleep and that made it worse!! The flight itself was pretty dull... terrible movies and I watched them all. I kept thinking of poor Jared in HK airport waiting and wondering where I was! Anyways, it was even harder landing into HK, it was so final! While we were in the air we cuold have turned around and some time... but once we had landed it's a bit harder to go back. But that's k - it all worked out. Jared was hanging around the airport and we were taxied home.
I know the next few days will be a bit crazy... trying not to feel too sad about leaving, enjoying re-discovering (as I have been told) HK with Jared. I'm so glad he's here... it's kinda weird, but fun cuz it's a part of my life none of my NZ friends really know about. (or not yet, 2005-6 Newyears hinthint). Only one person has asked if he was my husband haha... I'll have to get some more chocolate once he leaves!!
Today we're off to Stanley Market, then do some shopping for his laptop, see the night lights and dinner. Just another day in the big city.
After arriving at the airport, thinking my flight was at 10:30am when it was actually 12pm, the plane was delayed for 1.30hrs... so my last few hours in NZ were spent in the Auckland Airport, sleeping, kinda shopping and taking deep breaths.
Watching NZ pass by through the tiny airplane window was incredibily hard. Unfortunately, I was in the aisle seat and the lady next to me pulled the blinds down so she could sleep and that made it worse!! The flight itself was pretty dull... terrible movies and I watched them all. I kept thinking of poor Jared in HK airport waiting and wondering where I was! Anyways, it was even harder landing into HK, it was so final! While we were in the air we cuold have turned around and some time... but once we had landed it's a bit harder to go back. But that's k - it all worked out. Jared was hanging around the airport and we were taxied home.
I know the next few days will be a bit crazy... trying not to feel too sad about leaving, enjoying re-discovering (as I have been told) HK with Jared. I'm so glad he's here... it's kinda weird, but fun cuz it's a part of my life none of my NZ friends really know about. (or not yet, 2005-6 Newyears hinthint). Only one person has asked if he was my husband haha... I'll have to get some more chocolate once he leaves!!
Today we're off to Stanley Market, then do some shopping for his laptop, see the night lights and dinner. Just another day in the big city.
Tuesday, January 18, 2005
Leaving on a jet plane
Mehhh I'm leaving! I know I would eventually be faced with this day, but I never thought it come up on me so fast. I shed a few tears in Christchurch airport while I was there, but I can imagine Auckland will be worse. mehhh...
All my bags are packed
I guess I should go
The past four years has made me grow
And now I'm paying with luggage in excess
I've had my coffee
My muffins still warm
Stephie's waiting outside the door
See you later, I'm not gonna say goodbye
Don't miss me, just smile for me
Tell me you'll pray for me
I know our paths will cross again some day
Cause I'm leaving on a 7-4--7
God knows when I'll be back again
Oh New Zealand I'm leaving you for awhile
I've got my greenstone
and a paua ring
Little memories of good times been
I'll be wearing my "I call NZ home" t-shirt
All my bags are packed
I guess I should go
The past four years has made me grow
And now I'm paying with luggage in excess
I've had my coffee
My muffins still warm
Stephie's waiting outside the door
See you later, I'm not gonna say goodbye
Tell me you'll pray for me
I know our paths will cross again some day
Cause I'm leaving on a 7-4--7
God knows when I'll be back again
Oh New Zealand I'm leaving you for awhile
I've got my greenstone
and a paua ring
Little memories of good times been
I'll be wearing my "I call NZ home" t-shirt
Friday, January 14, 2005
A Dunedin-summers daydream
Today was the sort of day you remember when you look back over the memories of Dunedin. Good times.
Waking up to the breath-taking views of Dunedin harbour is something you don't do everyday, (unless you're living at Jen's) so I really enjoyed my time there. After lapping up the sun this morning with an ice-cream topped coffee and some extra on the side (Deep South hokey pokey of course) we ventutred into the wilderness of coastal Dunedin to see the pyramids at Victory Bay. Yep, there are pyramids in Dunedin, they're just covered in some prickly bush stuff, so not quite like the originals. The view form the top was amazing. You could see cliffs to one side, layers of colour across the horizon, yellows, greens and blues... and all the bush walks surrounding the area. Beautiful, whish you were here.
Beaches, just love them. The feel of the sand between your toes, and the icy-cold water, the sound of the crashing waves, watching white horses charging through the foam, the sun on your face, lying on a blankie falling asleep... hmm summer.
Waking up to the breath-taking views of Dunedin harbour is something you don't do everyday, (unless you're living at Jen's) so I really enjoyed my time there. After lapping up the sun this morning with an ice-cream topped coffee and some extra on the side (Deep South hokey pokey of course) we ventutred into the wilderness of coastal Dunedin to see the pyramids at Victory Bay. Yep, there are pyramids in Dunedin, they're just covered in some prickly bush stuff, so not quite like the originals. The view form the top was amazing. You could see cliffs to one side, layers of colour across the horizon, yellows, greens and blues... and all the bush walks surrounding the area. Beautiful, whish you were here.
Beaches, just love them. The feel of the sand between your toes, and the icy-cold water, the sound of the crashing waves, watching white horses charging through the foam, the sun on your face, lying on a blankie falling asleep... hmm summer.
Tuesday, January 11, 2005
Being there is everything
Well, I knew I was going to get in trouble for that last post - thanks for those comments, emails and tears. I'll remember never to do that again!
Anyways, I'm rather tired at the moment. And no, it's not from the old age... it's been a long weekend, a rather amazing one though. Travelling is quite tiring, even though I love the idea of going to another place and seeing new things. Teleportation would be so much easier, I wonder if you can take your baggage with you? No limits there ha. Although it's all about the journey isn't it, so I'll opt for flying.
So the weekend... Jelly & Sheremy!! I can't believed they're finally married, yet it seems so right. It was such a God ordained relationship. It's so evident in their lives and at the ceremony/reception, you know God will be that third piece in that rope. I can't remember where that verse is, but it is so applicable to their relationship. aww you just can't help but get those warm fuzzy feelings inside
That was my first wedding for a long time... and I was very good, cuz I only cried twice!! When Jeremy was saying his vows (they were so beautiful!!) and when Shels was thanking her parents... man, I'm starting again. ok breathe...
The sad thing is, I won't be able to see them as a married couple! They'll just have to come visit :) esp, when they have some little sprogs haha we never did set those odds for the first offspring - J&Shels or Raunch&Chago?!!
Another great thing of the weekend was being able to hang out with the girls - Kels, Shaz & Wendaline. Very special people, and they don't come along every day.
So despite the physical tiredness and mental drainage, I wouldn't have given this weekend up for the world!
Anyways, I'm rather tired at the moment. And no, it's not from the old age... it's been a long weekend, a rather amazing one though. Travelling is quite tiring, even though I love the idea of going to another place and seeing new things. Teleportation would be so much easier, I wonder if you can take your baggage with you? No limits there ha. Although it's all about the journey isn't it, so I'll opt for flying.
So the weekend... Jelly & Sheremy!! I can't believed they're finally married, yet it seems so right. It was such a God ordained relationship. It's so evident in their lives and at the ceremony/reception, you know God will be that third piece in that rope. I can't remember where that verse is, but it is so applicable to their relationship. aww you just can't help but get those warm fuzzy feelings inside
That was my first wedding for a long time... and I was very good, cuz I only cried twice!! When Jeremy was saying his vows (they were so beautiful!!) and when Shels was thanking her parents... man, I'm starting again. ok breathe...
The sad thing is, I won't be able to see them as a married couple! They'll just have to come visit :) esp, when they have some little sprogs haha we never did set those odds for the first offspring - J&Shels or Raunch&Chago?!!
Another great thing of the weekend was being able to hang out with the girls - Kels, Shaz & Wendaline. Very special people, and they don't come along every day.
So despite the physical tiredness and mental drainage, I wouldn't have given this weekend up for the world!
Thursday, January 06, 2005
Theatre 1, Wellington Hospital: 10:36pm Wednesday 6th January 1982
Congratulations – it’s a girl!
Fortunately for me, AJ (Auntie Jenny) named me, instead of my dad who had names like Polly (no offense to people with that name, it just isn’t me). So here I am, my 23rd birthday.
What I really would like to do is acknowledge the people who have been in some way an influence, an inspiration, an impact in my life – all twentythree years of it J I may just mention names. Although I know I could get into trouble for this, but please know everyone in some way or another has had an influence in my life, you’ve helped me be who I am today. And for that I thank you.
SO going back as far as I remember… here goes
NZ - Wellington
Anna Penhall, my best friend at Paparangi School when I was 5 years old, I still have the Kauri wooden box her dad made me when I left
HK
Clare House, first friend at Gun Club Hill. I was 7. We were the same height, same size shoes and even weighed the same!! Weird aye
Maddy Frasier & Tumshie Smillie same primary school, I remember the summers at the pool at their riding school, going to watch Last Action Hero at the movies!
Anna Sekula & Sheridan Brenchley King George V School, Y7 with Mr Trenaman.
Pilar Morais sevens, silvercord park, newyears, ziggy, prat
Pooja Sisters/Sister gang: Anna, Dove, Neena, Loz, Mel, Michele, Saz – our dances, y12 formal (pretty fly), music videos, going outoutout, boat parties, SSC, Jake Freddy… love you guys!
Em we did all the same subjects and were in the same class for most of them - Maths, English, RE, business studies (Adore I Dolci), food tech/textiles, Mandarin…
Vanessa Chinese lessons at my place, English class with Mrs Trenaman
Max & Jason painting my room and ultimately each other!
Gouty I remember asking him to be my friend in Chem & Bio class!! (he said “maybe”)
y12-13 Bio/Chem class: Bio camp, Mr. Sherrington, drinks before that final exam naughty us
Mari, Laku, Di, Nic & Park guys good music and dancing, always a laugh with them all
((echo)) enterprise: Laura, Anna, Lina, Bryan, Stu, Matt, J, Henry, Haytham... challenging times, our bake sale, photo competition, sponsorship, being on TV, concert, and finally the CD
NZ – Dunedin
Ingrid, Yasmin, Nic, Maria & other girls at St. Margs first group of Christians I met
Phil my first friend in Arana J the random train trip to welly was fun, coffee dates
Steph tasty cheesy buns, knows the muffin man, lammy partner, truly a gift from God
Dan roadtrips, walking in the rain to my sister’s place, has always challenged me in my faith, and continues to do so
Lisa & Selina – the crazy girls from the basement, the Hustle, togas
Mel doing her hair for the ball, missing each other at 6:30am prayer, shaving her hair
Jeremy driving up a bank, collection of cars, KFC, a legend, he still and will always inspire me!
Tania doing admin stuff for CE, also the times we sat and had some good talks
Becs & Brendan progressive dinner in Tans car, fellow wellingtonians
Queen St flat: Carolyn, Aimee & Steph, gardening, chocolate cake, random taxi calls
Jaime my sister, for sending me letters, gifts, pressies nearly every other week!!
Flying Ribenas: Steph, Phil, Brent, Lydia, Abbey, Penny, Brendan, Rach, Selina, David, Alice, Roslynn – loved the talks and discussions until midnight, the lollycake and smores in my room
Biyuth accountability partner, having lattes in our cafes, all of them!
Kirstie muso team for convergence, “I can smell you”
Chile team: Rochelle, Carmi, Dave – the first few days in Buenos Aires when we couldn’t speak any Spanish and ordered really gross pizza!! Haha
Jura St girls: Steph, Roz & Rach – knitting, shortland st, our Spanish answering machine
Roz good talks, sharing music, fri nites at the perc with Kev&Brad
Rach ‘studying’ in Rach’s room and our several muffin attempts!!
Groupies Shels, Jo & Andrea, catching up at cafes, doing work after
Shelley I love her cuz she’s just so real, and has amazing faith - yeah she's getting married to J
Lydia having a similar passion and calling by God, words of support, wisdom and encouragement
Abbey going through similar things, and having each other to encourage (still ongoing)
Penny getsmart morning teas, living at royal tce, a great mum to all, drives to CHC
Thida becoming a Christian, our ‘date’ after exams, Fiji baby
Kev his passion for music and worship, my big lil bro, his laugh and love of food
Brad M watching movies with Justin’s glow in the dark blankie, sitting in the boot of his car with Kirstie
Chris studying Chinese and our little homemade tests for each other, engagement to B
Shazza watching her do prints in her room, amazing creativity
Kelly catching up with our long talks, mini me
Chambers St: our themed dinners hehe jams, average cheese, flat names…
Carmi accountability partner, praying, never afraid to cry, and of course her stories
Brent our late nite talks, riding in the mini, his simplicity of life
Henry L sporadic calls from Oz which always made me think about stuff
Mostasa: Dan, Lydia, Carmi, Steph, Jen Lin, Andrea, Josh, Al, David, Sam in Lyd’s room, on a random hill or field, the girls, dancing to One way
Jen Lin Chinese classes and “studying” in her room, there’s more to her than you know
Jared B yummm slices, Otaki new years, driving lessons, someone who always says yes
Soo Sian sweetest, most gentle-natured person ever, great listener & talented artist
Yasmin having hot drinks in the SLC during our study breaks, her love for others
Scott profound comments, doing random stuff that makes you laugh
Ray flips on the beach, her courage, cute dresses & shoes that I can fit!!
Sarah her banquet, I never tried it, having tea and watching Home&Away
Again, this is not an exhaustive list… obviously my dad & mum, and sisters – Jaime & Sarah have had and continue to play an important part of my life. I seriously could keep going. And I will as I continue my journey I know there will be more people in my life who will influence me, challenge me, stretch me and inspire me… please friends of the future I need you!!
Fortunately for me, AJ (Auntie Jenny) named me, instead of my dad who had names like Polly (no offense to people with that name, it just isn’t me). So here I am, my 23rd birthday.
What I really would like to do is acknowledge the people who have been in some way an influence, an inspiration, an impact in my life – all twentythree years of it J I may just mention names. Although I know I could get into trouble for this, but please know everyone in some way or another has had an influence in my life, you’ve helped me be who I am today. And for that I thank you.
SO going back as far as I remember… here goes
NZ - Wellington
Anna Penhall, my best friend at Paparangi School when I was 5 years old, I still have the Kauri wooden box her dad made me when I left
HK
Clare House, first friend at Gun Club Hill. I was 7. We were the same height, same size shoes and even weighed the same!! Weird aye
Maddy Frasier & Tumshie Smillie same primary school, I remember the summers at the pool at their riding school, going to watch Last Action Hero at the movies!
Anna Sekula & Sheridan Brenchley King George V School, Y7 with Mr Trenaman.
Pilar Morais sevens, silvercord park, newyears, ziggy, prat
Pooja Sisters/Sister gang: Anna, Dove, Neena, Loz, Mel, Michele, Saz – our dances, y12 formal (pretty fly), music videos, going outoutout, boat parties, SSC, Jake Freddy… love you guys!
Em we did all the same subjects and were in the same class for most of them - Maths, English, RE, business studies (Adore I Dolci), food tech/textiles, Mandarin…
Vanessa Chinese lessons at my place, English class with Mrs Trenaman
Max & Jason painting my room and ultimately each other!
Gouty I remember asking him to be my friend in Chem & Bio class!! (he said “maybe”)
y12-13 Bio/Chem class: Bio camp, Mr. Sherrington, drinks before that final exam naughty us
Mari, Laku, Di, Nic & Park guys good music and dancing, always a laugh with them all
((echo)) enterprise: Laura, Anna, Lina, Bryan, Stu, Matt, J, Henry, Haytham... challenging times, our bake sale, photo competition, sponsorship, being on TV, concert, and finally the CD
NZ – Dunedin
Ingrid, Yasmin, Nic, Maria & other girls at St. Margs first group of Christians I met
Phil my first friend in Arana J the random train trip to welly was fun, coffee dates
Steph tasty cheesy buns, knows the muffin man, lammy partner, truly a gift from God
Dan roadtrips, walking in the rain to my sister’s place, has always challenged me in my faith, and continues to do so
Lisa & Selina – the crazy girls from the basement, the Hustle, togas
Mel doing her hair for the ball, missing each other at 6:30am prayer, shaving her hair
Jeremy driving up a bank, collection of cars, KFC, a legend, he still and will always inspire me!
Tania doing admin stuff for CE, also the times we sat and had some good talks
Becs & Brendan progressive dinner in Tans car, fellow wellingtonians
Queen St flat: Carolyn, Aimee & Steph, gardening, chocolate cake, random taxi calls
Jaime my sister, for sending me letters, gifts, pressies nearly every other week!!
Flying Ribenas: Steph, Phil, Brent, Lydia, Abbey, Penny, Brendan, Rach, Selina, David, Alice, Roslynn – loved the talks and discussions until midnight, the lollycake and smores in my room
Biyuth accountability partner, having lattes in our cafes, all of them!
Kirstie muso team for convergence, “I can smell you”
Chile team: Rochelle, Carmi, Dave – the first few days in Buenos Aires when we couldn’t speak any Spanish and ordered really gross pizza!! Haha
Jura St girls: Steph, Roz & Rach – knitting, shortland st, our Spanish answering machine
Roz good talks, sharing music, fri nites at the perc with Kev&Brad
Rach ‘studying’ in Rach’s room and our several muffin attempts!!
Groupies Shels, Jo & Andrea, catching up at cafes, doing work after
Shelley I love her cuz she’s just so real, and has amazing faith - yeah she's getting married to J
Lydia having a similar passion and calling by God, words of support, wisdom and encouragement
Abbey going through similar things, and having each other to encourage (still ongoing)
Penny getsmart morning teas, living at royal tce, a great mum to all, drives to CHC
Thida becoming a Christian, our ‘date’ after exams, Fiji baby
Kev his passion for music and worship, my big lil bro, his laugh and love of food
Brad M watching movies with Justin’s glow in the dark blankie, sitting in the boot of his car with Kirstie
Chris studying Chinese and our little homemade tests for each other, engagement to B
Shazza watching her do prints in her room, amazing creativity
Kelly catching up with our long talks, mini me
Chambers St: our themed dinners hehe jams, average cheese, flat names…
Carmi accountability partner, praying, never afraid to cry, and of course her stories
Brent our late nite talks, riding in the mini, his simplicity of life
Henry L sporadic calls from Oz which always made me think about stuff
Mostasa: Dan, Lydia, Carmi, Steph, Jen Lin, Andrea, Josh, Al, David, Sam in Lyd’s room, on a random hill or field, the girls, dancing to One way
Jen Lin Chinese classes and “studying” in her room, there’s more to her than you know
Jared B yummm slices, Otaki new years, driving lessons, someone who always says yes
Soo Sian sweetest, most gentle-natured person ever, great listener & talented artist
Yasmin having hot drinks in the SLC during our study breaks, her love for others
Scott profound comments, doing random stuff that makes you laugh
Ray flips on the beach, her courage, cute dresses & shoes that I can fit!!
Sarah her banquet, I never tried it, having tea and watching Home&Away
Again, this is not an exhaustive list… obviously my dad & mum, and sisters – Jaime & Sarah have had and continue to play an important part of my life. I seriously could keep going. And I will as I continue my journey I know there will be more people in my life who will influence me, challenge me, stretch me and inspire me… please friends of the future I need you!!
Tuesday, January 04, 2005
The effects of unproductivity
ohmygoodness I need to do something! NOW
Seriously my day consists of waking up, having a shower, having my quiet time, do some reading, have a coffee and brekkie, watch some old reruns on TV and other stuff like the Young and the Restless (I know!) and 7th Heaven with my pohpoh (grandma), eat lunch, maybe walk down to J'ville mall (those who have been there knows how riveting it is), watch the afternoon movie, check my emails, read some more, back to the TV with my pohpoh for Everybody loves Raymond, and the other shows before the news. Eat dinner while watching more shows, wash dishes, watch TV some more (Amazing Race, Survivor, Fear Factor, Extreme makeover house...) and have dessert... until I finally retire to my room.
I can't stand it anymore!! I have watched more tv in the past 2 weeks than I have in the entire year. haha I know that's not too hard to achieve since we didn't put our tv up. But still!! And I feel bad if I just go into the other room and not spend "quality time" with my pohpoh. Boo... well at least tomorrow is not a public holiday, so I can sort some stuff out like my student loans and things.
I can't wait to leave here... but the thing is I'm going into another week of doing nothing and then back to HK where I will be doing nothing until I find a job! But I guess I'll have a job - being a job hunter. That's something that's been on my mind a lot lately! What am I going to do? And the process of finding a job is soooo burdensome. Honestly, you have to sort your cv, find companies that are recruiting, revise your cv, write a coverletter, send them and then, sit and wait till you hear back from them. That's the hardest part, waiting - frequently checking emails, or making sure your phone is on and nearby so you don't miss a call. Ahhh... but the one thing I'm more scared of is... REJECTION!! yes, that terrible word that we all have to face in one way or another. Grr... and the whole job hunting thing sets you up for it. I hate (ok hate is a very strong word, greatly dislike) being in positions where I may be rejected. It sucks...
sigh... I know God is using this time to teach me to get over that fear. Accept it, learn from it and move on. I guess I need to be humbling myself as well... I greatly dislike doing things that I'm not good at, (I know who does?!) - there is a chance I could fail. And, I know God will help me out in every and any situation and so I don't need to worry about it. The outcome whatever it is, is because God wanted it to be like that and I need to learn from it, in both failures and successes.
Seriously my day consists of waking up, having a shower, having my quiet time, do some reading, have a coffee and brekkie, watch some old reruns on TV and other stuff like the Young and the Restless (I know!) and 7th Heaven with my pohpoh (grandma), eat lunch, maybe walk down to J'ville mall (those who have been there knows how riveting it is), watch the afternoon movie, check my emails, read some more, back to the TV with my pohpoh for Everybody loves Raymond, and the other shows before the news. Eat dinner while watching more shows, wash dishes, watch TV some more (Amazing Race, Survivor, Fear Factor, Extreme makeover house...) and have dessert... until I finally retire to my room.
I can't stand it anymore!! I have watched more tv in the past 2 weeks than I have in the entire year. haha I know that's not too hard to achieve since we didn't put our tv up. But still!! And I feel bad if I just go into the other room and not spend "quality time" with my pohpoh. Boo... well at least tomorrow is not a public holiday, so I can sort some stuff out like my student loans and things.
I can't wait to leave here... but the thing is I'm going into another week of doing nothing and then back to HK where I will be doing nothing until I find a job! But I guess I'll have a job - being a job hunter. That's something that's been on my mind a lot lately! What am I going to do? And the process of finding a job is soooo burdensome. Honestly, you have to sort your cv, find companies that are recruiting, revise your cv, write a coverletter, send them and then, sit and wait till you hear back from them. That's the hardest part, waiting - frequently checking emails, or making sure your phone is on and nearby so you don't miss a call. Ahhh... but the one thing I'm more scared of is... REJECTION!! yes, that terrible word that we all have to face in one way or another. Grr... and the whole job hunting thing sets you up for it. I hate (ok hate is a very strong word, greatly dislike) being in positions where I may be rejected. It sucks...
sigh... I know God is using this time to teach me to get over that fear. Accept it, learn from it and move on. I guess I need to be humbling myself as well... I greatly dislike doing things that I'm not good at, (I know who does?!) - there is a chance I could fail. And, I know God will help me out in every and any situation and so I don't need to worry about it. The outcome whatever it is, is because God wanted it to be like that and I need to learn from it, in both failures and successes.
Saturday, January 01, 2005
It's the new year after all
We entered the new year with a bang, whizz & sparkles... yes we had fireworks, thanks to Sam. It was fun!
So what does 2005 hold for us? It’s a new year – and as always there's challenges, uncertainties, storms, which will lead to testimonies of survival and growth.
Big changes for me this year will be going back to HK, entering the work environment, living at home among other things I’m sure will arise. But that’s all good. It’s a new year, a new season. It’s exciting. Even though my situations and environments change, I take with me memories and experiences that will help me to keep going. And soon it will just be another thing in the past.
I really like this quote, and feel it is quite appropriate for this year:
Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still. (A Chinese proverb)
What areas do I want to grow in? Definately my relationship with Jesus, that's a continual thing, which I need to be more dedicated to. I know my Chinese, both Cantonese and Mandarin need some working on, especially my spoken chinese. Growing in terms of expanding my knowledge and understanding of the things around me and what interests me through reading, questioning and applying it in my life. And I guess ones character will grow as they go through situations that will build character and leave lasting impressions. So in that, we all can grow slowly.
Here's to 2005. Cheers!
So what does 2005 hold for us? It’s a new year – and as always there's challenges, uncertainties, storms, which will lead to testimonies of survival and growth.
Big changes for me this year will be going back to HK, entering the work environment, living at home among other things I’m sure will arise. But that’s all good. It’s a new year, a new season. It’s exciting. Even though my situations and environments change, I take with me memories and experiences that will help me to keep going. And soon it will just be another thing in the past.
I really like this quote, and feel it is quite appropriate for this year:
Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still. (A Chinese proverb)
What areas do I want to grow in? Definately my relationship with Jesus, that's a continual thing, which I need to be more dedicated to. I know my Chinese, both Cantonese and Mandarin need some working on, especially my spoken chinese. Growing in terms of expanding my knowledge and understanding of the things around me and what interests me through reading, questioning and applying it in my life. And I guess ones character will grow as they go through situations that will build character and leave lasting impressions. So in that, we all can grow slowly.
Here's to 2005. Cheers!
